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When Rituals Kill

September 24, 2015 by Patrick M Coyne

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I am all for holding on to traditions and rituals. It can help us, as a people, identify with ideas that can be bigger than ourselves. These ideas are what we should hold on to and strive to understand better. The meaning of the ritual is the sacred ingredient, not the behavior itself.

When the physical ritual kills the sacred followers, isn’t it (past the) time to search for the meaning again and adjust the physical ritual?

Another unfortunate disaster occurred during the Hajj. Deadly occurrences have continued during the Hajj for decades. Once again, this stampede occurred near the ritual of the “stoning of the devil”.

Shared from the New York Times:

Phot Credit: Mosa’Ab Elshamy/Associated Press, published by New York Times

Stampede Near Mecca During Hajj Leaves at Least 717 Dead

BEIRUT, Lebanon — At least 717 people were killed, and 863 were injured, in a stampede near Mecca, Saudi Arabia, on Thursday morning…

…The accident, in which 863 were also injured, occurred on the first day of Eid al-Adha, one of the holiest holidays in the Muslim calendar…

…It appeared to be the deadliest accident during the hajj since 1990, when 1,426 pilgrims perished in a stampede in a tunnel linking Mecca and Mina. And it occurred less than two weeks after a large construction crane toppled and crashed into the Grand Mosque in Mecca, killing at least 111 people and injuring 394 others…

Source: Stampede Near Mecca During Hajj Leaves at Least 717 Dead – The New York Times

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Filed Under: Create Tagged With: biggert than ourselves, ideas, search for meaning

Stay Ahead of Fashion!

September 16, 2015 by Patrick M Coyne

The year was 1994… yes, over one score ago… I found myself in Paris for the ever insane Bastille Day celebration.

When I travel, I have a rather religious belief that traveling light increases my happiness to exponential proportions.  I usually bring light clothes that are easy to wash, and I tend to prioritize practicality over fashion. Another of my rules, when packing for an awesome trip, is to leave adequate space in your bag for new items scored along the way.

While packing, it was evident that I was really in the need of new shoes. I was headed to London, Paris and Rome. Rome was going to provide me some new leather shoes- she just didn’t know it yet. So, I packed my basics, along with empty space, ready for new shoes and other goods and headed off.

I did pack comfort shoes and leather summer sandals (from a previous trip to Florence) to get me through the first legs of the trip. Cozy and Cool.

Once in Paris, I learned that Bizet’s Carmen was being performed at the Paris Opera House. I love the opera, I love the building! Had to go! After scrambling around a bit, tickets were obtained and the plan came together.

As I was dressing, it became apparent that my shoe selection was a bit inadequate; grungy comfys or open sandals? Shit! No time for new shoes; the show must go on! I had to improvise.

At the opera, you would have thought I was a freak show in the circus. Yes, I was american then, too. I also realized that if Parisians love Americans, they usually hid it very well. But this was different… SANDALS WITH SOCKS?? AT AN OPERA!

I felt that I may have set back American/French relations back to the 1780’s. In fact by the scars I had from the stare daggers, I thought maybe I set back fashion to the 10th century!

And then today, I read this story on the front page of the Wall Street Journal…

Seeeee?

 

Photo Credit: Stu Woo/The Wall Street Journal By STU WOO And RAY A. SMITH

From Today’s Wall Street Journal:

I’ll Be Darned, Wearing Socks With Sandals Is Fashionable

At men’s apparel shows this spring, runway models sported a look that many fashion experts believe is just wrong. “It’s not acceptable,” says Sam Spector, a fashion stylist whose clients include actors Daniel Radcliffe and Neil Patrick Harris.Wearing socks with sandals—a source of endless ridicule for dads, German tourists and hippies—is allegedly in vogue. Calvin Klein Collection, Bottega Veneta, Marni and other luxury labels showcased the pairing at men’s runway shows in June. Attendees at men’s New York Fashion Week in July wore the comfortable combination. Footwear-maker Teva recently started selling sock-and-sandal packages while offering an online guide on how to pull off the look…

… Consuelo Castiglioni, creative director for high-end fashion label Marni, saw socks as an accent, “an accessory, adding extra color and texture to the outfit.” At Marni’s Spring 2016 show in June, socks and sandals were worn with dressy shirts and slacks.Some in the fashion industry applaud the trend. “Why not wear your favorite sandals year-round and pair it with beautiful cashmere sock?” says Grant Woolhead, a stylist and the fashion director for Out Magazine. He finds the I-don’t-care look of socks with sandals “kind of sexy.”

Source: I’ll Be Darned, Wearing Socks With Sandals Is Fashionable – WSJ

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Changing What’s Inside

August 31, 2015 by Patrick M Coyne

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When you squeeze an orange you get orange juice
Because that’s what’s inside.
The very same nature is true about you.
 
When someone squeezes you-
Puts pressure on you,
What comes out is what’s inside.
 
If you don’t like what’s inside
You can change it
By changing your thoughts.
 
—–Dr. Wayne Dyer (1940 -2015)

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Follow Us Around the Bend – Along the Winding Road

August 5, 2014 by Patrick M Coyne

Obstacles will continue to present themselves along the winding road. Get around the obstacles by following the path of least resistance. Follow us around the bend. Subscribe to my blog. Stay updated with the path of least resistance:

Source: Follow Us Around the Bend – Along the Winding Road

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