We all have positive traits we should feed and have other traits we should starve. The focus of our attention not only sets the paths we travel, it dictates the people we become.
Feed the Bear.
Starve the Goldbricker.
Bear and the Goldbricker, shared from Along the Winding Road
…Bear was big and strong in the physical sense, indeed. His heart was even larger while his moral determination had even more strength. On the battlefield, his fierceness was unleashed against the enemy but off the field he could be as tender as a teddy bear.
Source: Bear and the Goldbricker – Along the Winding Road